Joanna Goddard of the excellent blog A Cup Of Jo recently posted this video and I thought it was so excellent I wanted to post it as well.
It's not that what Ash says in the video is surprising or particularly new to me, but it's said really well and it touches on a huge category of my brain activity which is "fantasies about how I'll teach my kid to be a good person and do what's right." I have fantasies all the time about talking to my son about just this sort of issue - I work out my own version of this speech (and many others) so I'm ready - which is why I appreciate being given such a great template. If you've got 5 minutes, check it out. It's totally worth it.